December is a busy period, especially if you have little ones. If you're a mom, this probably means a mix of excitement and stress. How do you ensure that your kids and you navigate through this festive season as smoothly as possible, without getting overwhelmed? We provide tips to make December as enjoyable as possible for yourself and your little ones.
1. Not everything has to be perfect
For you as a mother, December often means a busy time, but it's important to also enjoy it. Plan moments at home without obligations, especially in the mornings. Don't be too hard on yourself and try to spread out the festivities. Instead of striving for perfection, consciously enjoy the little things. Ultimately, it's about the warmth of togetherness and the magic of the holidays.
2. Flexible work during the Christmas break
The Christmas break is always a busy period and passes by quickly. It can be challenging if as parents, you still have to work between Christmas and New Year. If possible, discuss the option of working from home for a few days. By working flexible hours, you can manage your time. You can choose to work in the evening when your child is already in bed. This gives you the opportunity to be present for your children during the Christmas period. If your workplace allows flexible working hours, consider adjusting your work schedule so you can plan certain activities with your children, such as craft afternoons or a walk outdoors.
3. Involve children in the holidays
Involve your child in the activities organized at school, such as the Christmas dinner. If you have to make something for the Christmas dinner, opt for something original and simple, and create the tastiest snacks with your child. No inspiration? We have 6 fun ideas for quick and delightful Christmas snacks.
4. Make clear agreements about gifts
For children, it's nice to know what to expect. Agree in advance on how often and when they can put their shoes out for gifts. If you want to celebrate Christmas with gifts under the tree, but not on the same scale as with Sinterklaas, spread out the unwrapping of small gifts over several days. This keeps the excitement alive and prevents overstimulation on a single day. Turn it into an advent calendar, where each time you open a gift feels special. Also consider replacing some gifts with experiences, such as a trip to the zoo, a movie night, or ice skating. This way, you create valuable memories.